Triff Militär-Singles

I am from a small town in the SW corner of Oklahoma. 2 hours SW of OKC. I just moved back roughly a year ago to be closer to my family as the health of my family was declining and I knew I needed to be closer. I miss OKC a lot. I'm in pursuit of OKC once again though; trying to make it back that way. It's very difficult meeting people I find interesting here in this small town. Everyone knows everyone, and it's difficult to find open minded people here. It's not to say everyone is, but many neieve- I want more out of talking than, "what's up, how's the weather?" Let's talk business, politics, science, cars, sports, fishing, agriculture, fitness, finances etc. I want a challenge. I want to be kept on my toes. I am a hard worker and I enjoy accomplishing goals. I am not a chaser though- if you don't want to be here, by all means leave. If expressing my interest isn't enough, see ya! I love to do things for people, help them out, surprise them; I enjoy seeing people be happy and it's almost self serving. I swear there is something wrong about me that I'm not seeing because conversation doesn't make it past 3 responses for me on here. So, CAUTION! I haven't figured out what it is yet so, just a heads up. If you figure it out, let me know! I'm interested if finding interesting men on here, who are good listeners, ambitious, driven, family-oriented, chivalrous men; because I like to think I'm a good hearted person, and I appreciate the little things. I am self-sustaining so, I'm not looking for someone to take care of me financially. I'm looking for someone to take care of me, not my bills. Not looking for FWB so, don't bother if that's why you're here, cause bottom line is, that's not why I'm here. I know I probably sound mean, or pushy but, I'm not- I just feel like I need to be direct in what I want- something dating over the years has definitely stuck with me. Say what you want/mean- don't make someone guess. Everyone is happier in the end!! :)