I hold an angel, a devil and a madman inside me!

Melissa (36) 

Female / Single / ID: 1215868
Las Cruces, New Mexico, United States
Seeking: Male 28 - 37 living within 500 kms of Las Cruces, New Mexico, United States
For: Penpal, Friendship, Romance / Dating, Marriage

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Education: Bachelors Degree
Have children: Yes - live at home
Drink: Occasionally drink
Smoke: Don't smoke
Religion: Other
Occupation: Self Employed

I am an artist and a business owner, work takes up a lot of my time but with my free time, I like to hike, swim, camp and just adventure and discover. I work to live not live to work! I love to travel when I have the opportunity. I want to see as much of the world as possible and eventually would li...read more >>

I am an artist and a business owner, work takes up a lot of my time but with my free time, I like to hike, swim, camp and just adventure and discover. I work to live not live to work! I love to travel when I have the opportunity. I want to see as much of the world as possible and eventually would like to settle near the ocean.... Any ocean!

I'm a "glass is half full" type of person, always! I am understanding, patient and I adapt easily to new surroundings and circumstances...

I'm not really materialistic. Experience is worth more to me than things. Given a choice between a spa day and cave exploring, I would pick cave exploring with out a second thought. With that said, I do clean up well and enjoy having a reason to every now and then :) but its not entirely unheard of for me to spend a couple hours getting ready, and then end up with mud on my shoes and dirt under my nails before we leave the house lol! I grew up on a farm in a military family of survivalists... I'm not a stranger to hard work and getting dirty, and sometimes that takes precedence over maintaining a good hair day lol!

I have a good sense of humor. I'm a quality conversationalist, I enjoy intellect and sharing new ideas. I enjoy living dangerously, but not wrecklessly. I think there is a big different between calculated risk and sheer stupidity ;) ... I like to be silky and have fun with someone I'm comfortable with and trust to let me be myself, but more often than not, I observe and listen. I'm more of a people watcher...

I like to do good things and enstill that in my kids as well. Every day is an opportunity to improve the world around us in some small way and the choices we make DO matter profoundly!!!

I am self sufficient and independent, but I also understand and appreciate the value in having a partner! I'm comfortable being a leader but won't tolerate dead weight. I'm also comfortable in the role of the "right hand" if my partner has stronger leadership qualities than I do.

I have studied 3 forms of martial arts and was also a competitive boxer for several years. Having the ability to protect your self in any situation is very important to me. I'm a survivalist, I keep up on my survival skills and scenario protocol... Having an equal minded partner is a big bonus!!!

Respect and value for life is a quality I look for and pay close attention to... Showing good judgment and inner stillness under stress is also I good quality.

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About Melissa

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Gender: Female Male
Age: 36 28 - 37
Lives in: Las Cruces, New Mexico, United States within 500 kms of Las Cruces, New Mexico, United States
Relocate: Willing to relocate within my country Any
Appearance 
Hair color: Blonde Any
Hair length: Medium Any
Hair type: Wavy Any
Eye color: Grey Any
Eye wear: None Any
Height: 4'7" (140 cm) Any
Weight: 47 kg (103 lb) Any
Body style: Petite Any
Ethnicity: Caucasian (White) Any
Facial hair: N/A Any
Best feature: My Legs Any
Body art: None Any
Appearance: Attractive Any
Lifestyle 
Drink: Occasionally drink Any
Smoke: Don't smoke Any
Marital Status: Single Any
Have children: Yes - live at home Any
Number of children: 2 Any
Oldest child: 11 Any
Youngest child: 9 Any
Want (more) children: Not Sure Any
Have pets: Dog,Fish,Bird Any
Occupation: Self Employed Any
Service branch: Veteran Any
Employment status: Full Time Any
Income: $0 - $30,000 USD Any
Home type: Apartment / Flat Any
Living situation: Live with kids Any
Background / Cultural Values 
Nationality: Greece Any
Education: Bachelors Degree Any
Languages spoken: English Any
Political view: Not interested Any
Religion: Other Any
Star sign: Cancer Any
Hobbies & Interests
Entertainment: Art / Painting, Beach / Parks, Camping / Nature, Crafts, Dancing, Dining Out, Gardening / Landscaping, Home Improvement, Movies / Cinema, Museums / Galleries, Pets, Photography, Poetry, Reading, Shopping, Traveling, Writing
Food: American, French, Middle Eastern, Barbecue, Seafood, Cajun / Southern, Greek, Soul Food, California-Fusion, Indian, Caribbean/Cuban, Italian, Chinese / Dim Sum, Japanese / Sushi, Deli, Eastern European, Mediterranean, Fast Food / Pizza, Mexican
Music: Alternative, Country / Folk, Dance / Techno, Jazz / Blues, New Age, Pop, Reggae, R'n'B / Hip Hop, Rock, Soft Rock, World
Sport: Archery, Boating / Sailing, Boxing, Canoe / Kayak, Canyoning / Caving, Diving, Extreme Sports, Hiking, Horse Riding, Martial Arts, Mountain / Rock Climbing, Scuba Diving / Snorkeling, Swimming, Walking

I have no plans of ever being rich. I just want to operate my business and maybe acquire a small plane or pontoon boat for whale watching tours or aerial tours for tourists. Would like to live on a house boat or tiny house eventually, if this sounds like you or if this sounds like the direction you ...read more >>

I have no plans of ever being rich. I just want to operate my business and maybe acquire a small plane or pontoon boat for whale watching tours or aerial tours for tourists. Would like to live on a house boat or tiny house eventually, if this sounds like you or if this sounds like the direction you want your life to go, then we might be a good match. I'm not looking to be rescued... Just looking for a partner, whether I'd be a husband, boyfriend or just a hetero life mate (inseparable best friend) not in a hurry, I'm looking for someone who's shares my interests, both in adventure and also in many forms of art. Someone who enjoys being active but also enjoys quiet time at home. Someone who is 'partner' oriented. Being a team and being able to trust and count on each other is important to me! You don't have to be a genius but some measure of intelligence is appreciated. And you don't have to live in the gym to catch my eye but personal health and physical attraction is important and your body IS your temple so you should take care of it but making an effort to be healthy and fit enough to run from zombies is satisfactory lol! Having a reasonable shot at fighting for your life if you need to is the key. ;)

Yes...! I think we need to be prepared for zombies! If you don't feel that you are well suited to survive and eventually thrive in a zombie uprising, then this might not be the place for you lol :p

Things on my bucket list are: hunting Alligators in Florida, watching the leaves change color in Maine, watching the Ball drop in New York City, exploring the Badlands of South Dakota, Spelunking, scuba cave diving, free dive spear fishing, watching baby sea turtles hatch, wrangle a crocodile, Mardi Gra... Among 10,000 other things ;)

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