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Melissa
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Last active: over 12 months ago

37 Las Cruces, New Mexico, United States

Female / Single / ID: 1215868

Seeking Male 28 - 37 living within 500 kms of Las Cruces, New Mexico, United States For: Penpal, Friendship, Romance / Dating, Marriage

Last active: over 12 months ago

Overview

Melissa

She's Looking For

Education:

Bachelors Degree
Any

Have children:

Yes - live at home
Any

Drink:

Occasionally drink
Any

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Any

Religion:

Other
Any

Occupation:

Self Employed
Any

Member Overview

I am an artist and a business owner, work takes up a lot of my time but with my free time, I like to hike, swim, camp and just adventure and discover. I work to live not live to work! I love to travel when I have the opportunity. I want to see as much of the world as possible and eventually would li...
I am an artist and a business owner, work takes up a lot of my time but with my free time, I like to hike, swim, camp and just adventure and discover. I work to live not live to work! I love to travel when I have the opportunity. I want to see as much of the world as possible and eventually would like to settle near the ocean.... Any ocean! I'm a "glass is half full" type of person, always! I am understanding, patient and I adapt easily to new surroundings and circumstances... I'm not really materialistic. Experience is worth more to me than things. Given a choice between a spa day and cave exploring, I would pick cave exploring with out a second thought. With that said, I do clean up well and enjoy having a reason to every now and then :) but its not entirely unheard of for me to spend a couple hours getting ready, and then end up with mud on my shoes and dirt under my nails before we leave the house lol! I grew up on a farm in a military family of survivalists... I'm not a stranger to hard work and getting dirty, and sometimes that takes precedence over maintaining a good hair day lol! I have a good sense of humor. I'm a quality conversationalist, I enjoy intellect and sharing new ideas. I enjoy living dangerously, but not wrecklessly. I think there is a big different between calculated risk and sheer stupidity ;) ... I like to be silky and have fun with someone I'm comfortable with and trust to let me be myself, but more often than not, I observe and listen. I'm more of a people watcher... I like to do good things and enstill that in my kids as well. Every day is an opportunity to improve the world around us in some small way and the choices we make DO matter profoundly!!! I am self sufficient and independent, but I also understand and appreciate the value in having a partner! I'm comfortable being a leader but won't tolerate dead weight. I'm also comfortable in the role of the "right hand" if my partner has stronger leadership qualities than I do. I have studied 3 forms of martial arts and was also a competitive boxer for several years. Having the ability to protect your self in any situation is very important to me. I'm a survivalist, I keep up on my survival skills and scenario protocol... Having an equal minded partner is a big bonus!!! Respect and value for life is a quality I look for and pay close attention to... Showing good judgment and inner stillness under stress is also I good quality.
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Seeking

I have no plans of ever being rich. I just want to operate my business and maybe acquire a small plane or pontoon boat for whale watching tours or aerial tours for tourists. Would like to live on a house boat or tiny house eventually, if this sounds like you or if this sounds like the direction you ...
I have no plans of ever being rich. I just want to operate my business and maybe acquire a small plane or pontoon boat for whale watching tours or aerial tours for tourists. Would like to live on a house boat or tiny house eventually, if this sounds like you or if this sounds like the direction you want your life to go, then we might be a good match. I'm not looking to be rescued... Just looking for a partner, whether I'd be a husband, boyfriend or just a hetero life mate (inseparable best friend) not in a hurry, I'm looking for someone who's shares my interests, both in adventure and also in many forms of art. Someone who enjoys being active but also enjoys quiet time at home. Someone who is 'partner' oriented. Being a team and being able to trust and count on each other is important to me! You don't have to be a genius but some measure of intelligence is appreciated. And you don't have to live in the gym to catch my eye but personal health and physical attraction is important and your body IS your temple so you should take care of it but making an effort to be healthy and fit enough to run from zombies is satisfactory lol! Having a reasonable shot at fighting for your life if you need to is the key. ;) Yes...! I think we need to be prepared for zombies! If you don't feel that you are well suited to survive and eventually thrive in a zombie uprising, then this might not be the place for you lol :p Things on my bucket list are: hunting Alligators in Florida, watching the leaves change color in Maine, watching the Ball drop in New York City, exploring the Badlands of South Dakota, Spelunking, scuba cave diving, free dive spear fishing, watching baby sea turtles hatch, wrangle a crocodile, Mardi Gra... Among 10,000 other things ;)
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More About Me

Melissa

She's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Female
Male
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
37
28 - 37
Lives in:
Las Cruces, New Mexico, United States
within 500 kms of Las Cruces, New Mexico, United States
Relocate:
Willing to relocate within my country
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Appearance

Hair color:
Blonde
Any
Hair length:
Medium
Any
Hair type:
Wavy
Any
Eye color:
Grey
Any
Eye wear:
None
Any
Height:
4'7" (140 cm)
Any
Weight:
47 kg (103 lb)
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Body style:
Petite
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Ethnicity:
Caucasian (White)
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Facial hair:
N/A
Any
Best feature:
My Legs
Any
Body art:
None
Any
Appearance:
Attractive
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Lifestyle

Drink:
Occasionally drink
Any
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Any
Marital Status:
Single
Any
Have children:
Yes - live at home
Any
Number of children:
2
Any
Oldest child:
11
Any
Youngest child:
9
Any
Want (more) children:
Not Sure
Any
Have pets:
Dog,Fish,Bird
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Occupation:
Self Employed
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Service branch:
Veteran
Any
Employment status:
Full Time
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Income:
$0 - $30,000 USD
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Home type:
Apartment / Flat
Any
Living situation:
Live with kids
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Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
Greece
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Education:
Bachelors Degree
Any
Languages spoken:
English
Any
Political view:
Not interested
Any
Religion:
Other
Any
Star sign:
Cancer
Any

Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Art / Painting, Beach / Parks, Camping / Nature, Crafts, Dancing, Dining Out, Gardening / Landscaping, Home Improvement, Movies / Cinema, Museums / Galleries, Pets, Photography, Poetry, Reading, Shopping, Traveling, Writing

Food:

American, French, Middle Eastern, Barbecue, Seafood, Cajun / Southern, Greek, Soul Food, California-Fusion, Indian, Caribbean/Cuban, Italian, Chinese / Dim Sum, Japanese / Sushi, Deli, Eastern European, Mediterranean, Fast Food / Pizza, Mexican

Music:

Alternative, Country / Folk, Dance / Techno, Jazz / Blues, New Age, Pop, Reggae, R'n'B / Hip Hop, Rock, Soft Rock, World

Sport:

Archery, Boating / Sailing, Boxing, Canoe / Kayak, Canyoning / Caving, Diving, Extreme Sports, Hiking, Horse Riding, Martial Arts, Mountain / Rock Climbing, Scuba Diving / Snorkeling, Swimming, Walking

More About Me

Favorite Movie:

Currently my favorite movies are: Life of Pi, The Giver, Hunger Games movies, G.I. Jane, Happy Feet, Howels Moving Castle, My Neighbor Totoro, The Beach...

Favorite Book:

The Giver, The Preal, Old Man and the Sea...

Favorite Food:

So far I have not found a type of food that I don't like... There are a few condiments I could do without but the list is short :)

Favorite Music:

Anything OTHER than death metal pretty much... I appreciate music with lyrics I can understand, and some kind of point to the song... I'm an artist... I like art that provokes/evokes feeling and thought!

Dress Style:

Well, I work a lot so my general attire is jeans and T-shirt/ tank top that I don't mind getting dirty... But when I also have my out door clothing... Boots and layers, and I have a closet full of nice clothes that I hardly ever get to wear... I love to get cleaned up and have an excuse to look nice but rarely make it a point to do so.

I have an hourglass figure, curvy! I'm 4'7" so I have a compact frame which is good when I'm training because I'm pretty much all muscle, when I'm not training my natural figure is curvy and feminine.

Humor:

Witty, sarcastic, and dark at times.

Hobbies & Interests:

Sculpting, scetching, painting, wood carving, beading, studying survival manuals, watching nature documentaries ad survival shows, and doing out door adventure stuffs :) I love to camp and hike and I have a huge interest in wildlife. I always want to see what's around the next corner...

Travelled:

I have been to Mexico, the Bahamas, and over half the U.S. I would love to go to Japan, Africa, Greece, Hawaii (though I might not come back), Peru, Brazil, Spain, Iceland, Alaska, New Zealand, Madagascar and Australia.

Cultural Adaption:

There is a learning curve to getting to know anyone new, regardless of where they are from. I don't see cultural or international borders as a hurdle or restraint in getting to know a human being!

Romance:

True romance isn't planned!

Personality:

Friendly, I can get along with anyone. I'm not a huge fan of large crouds but I do enjoy things like art festivals and farmers markets and things like that. I prefer to be by myself or in a small group... Like a group of 2 lol!

My Perfect Match is:

I don't have a type in particular... Its more about compatible lifestyles. However, if I had to describe what I think my perfect match would be, I would say a combination of Luke Danes from Gilmore Girls, with the best characteristics of both Rick and Shane from walking dead... And little bit of Sawyer from LOST, thrown in for good measure.

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