I have the same concerns as u when it comes to a mate. Women are out here being just as sneaky and secretive as men.... I'm willing to take a shot looks are not as important as Charwcter to me. It's how who u are and do u click with me I am sarcastic, humorous and outgoing. I'm not into wasting ur time. I'm willing to get to know anyone just because we can't be lovers doesn't mean we can't be friends . I just want someone I can stay in with and watch movies and talk Simple is romantic of course we will go out but it's the small things that are most romantic and genuine