I'm prior service working and going to school. I find that I get along best with people that have military experience. I plan to commission and go back into the reserves as a physician. My entire career will be dedicated to helping troops heal so why wouldn't I want to be with someone that genuinely...
I'm prior service working and going to school. I find that I get along best with people that have military experience. I plan to commission and go back into the reserves as a physician. My entire career will be dedicated to helping troops heal so why wouldn't I want to be with someone that genuinely understands that?
Things that make me happy: jokes ;-), sarcasm, conversation with patter, my nieces, nephew, and God daughters, fishing, shooting, cooking, being creative, being productive, learning, competition, challenges, people with class, music :the Rolling Stones, Otis Redding, 90s rock and alternative, Zac Brown Band, The Black Keys, I'm very selective with rap and pop but eclectic with everything else. I enjoy sports when I can either participate or watch in person. Adventures, being outdoors, being active, cursing at bad drivers, coffee without pumpkin, scotch, good food ( the French know what they're doing in the kitchen), conservative politics, old fashioned sensibilities, science, medicine, discoveries, surprises, and peonies.
I'm optimistic but I understand I may not find what I'm looking for here. With that said if I do not respond I am likely not interested but please don't be offended. I do read profiles and consider a lot of things but am shy about rejecting men because I don't want to discourage anyone's effort to find happiness. good luck with your searches and I look forward to talking and
Dating lessons learned:
1. I do not respond to people that don't have a profile picture (of themselves). I don't even read the email.
2. I'm not interested in marriage or huge commitments right away, but I am interested in becoming close to someone. And taking that natural progression towards serious. It doesn't have to be overwhelmingly emotional it just has to feel as if I could say anything, do anything, or be anything and not be judged. The emotional attachment will of course follow suit. But all of that requires that you meet and spend time getting to know one another. If you're not interested in actually dating please do not waste my time. Time is the currency of life, and I find it disrespectful to myself and those that I love that anyone would consider cheating me out of it.
3. Children: that's an enormous commitment. I don't think anyone on this or any other dating site is capable of making an intelligent decision about how children will fit into their lives at this time. Some relationships aren't built for having children. Some relationships are. I plan to be a surgeon and therefore I must feel extremely comfortable having children with someone I know will support my decisions and work with me. Hence why I want such a closeness. Because it makes everything else an option.
Yes you can be idealistic and conservative... See I just was.
Ok so a few hours here and I'm already annoyed lol... Some jackass who thinks he has a better grip on fitness and health than everyone else told me I was a catfish and blocked me because he doesn't think I have an athletic build. But I bet the muscle on my calves and thighs would make him weep at the thought of how effortless I come by them and how many squats lunges and calf raises he has done to acquire a portion of what I have. Anyway I don't appreciate nasty grams. And don't be a giant pussy and block me.
My build is athletic and always will be. I wear 35 lbs of gear to work everyday and walk on average 7 mi in one shift. I have a round shaped face and youthful cheeks ... That is all.
p.s. You don't become a military honor graduate of any sort by being a lazy slouch about pt. and in that basic training photo I was a size 2... And I still weighed 145.... and look I still got chipmunk cheeks.... I'm done wasting my time to prove anything about myself. If you don't believe any of it... It's simple... Don't message me.