Ok so let me say this... I have spent most of my life helping people fix their problems. I am confused by the human race. People have told me many wonderful things about myself, but as soon as someone has no more problems they leave. Why is it so hard to be a friend? I am a pretty laid back easy going person. I am optimistic, caring, I am the most honest person I know. I don't pretend and I tend to speak my mind... sometimes I put a buffer on my actual thoughts though...lol. I am a college graduate, I am very liberal in my political beliefs, I think that it is wonderful that not everyone agrees with my thoughts, for if we all agreed there would be nothing to discuss. I won't force my opinions on anyone, but I may challenge your thinking. I love the outdoors. Mainly camping, fishing (but I don't bait my own hook, I don't like to take the fish off, and I don't eat them..lol), I also like canoeing, I would like to go white water rafting, to make it simple I love the water. I love to travel although currently I don't get to do as much of it as I would like to, but before I die I want to see the world. There are not many things in this world that I am not open to, I believe life is about experience and you can only experience things by doing them. Some things about me that are not common: I think Valentine's day is a stupid holiday, I am not big on flowers (unless you are sending them to work), and I hate chocolate. I have four children. They are 11, 8, and two 5 year olds. They mean the world to me and no one comes before them. However, I am looking for someone that can share in the joys of a family with me. I am not looking for anyone to be their daddy, but I would expect that you would be a good role model. I know that four children sounds like a lot, but I have pretty good kids, granted they have their days but they are kids. So, if I haven't scared you away yet let me tell you what I am looking for..lol.