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Tatiana
Standard Member
Last active: 2 weeks ago

39 US Virgin Islands, Virgin Islands, Virgin Islands (US)

Female / Single / ID: 2230248

Seeking Male 30 - 54 For: Penpal, Friendship

Last active: 2 weeks ago

Overview

Tatiana

She's Looking For

Education:

Masters Degree
Bachelors Degree, Masters Degree, PhD or Doctorate

Have children:

Yes - live at home
Any

Drink:

Don't drink
Don't drink, Occasionally drink

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Don't smoke

Religion:

No religion
No religion

Occupation:

Technical / Science / Engineering
Any

Member Overview

I am a quiet, private, academically minded person with very little social life except the occasional phone call with friends or family, all of whom live out of the state or country. I have not dated in over 8 years, because I have an eight year old son whose life I did not want to destabilize. P...
I am a quiet, private, academically minded person with very little social life except the occasional phone call with friends or family, all of whom live out of the state or country. I have not dated in over 8 years, because I have an eight year old son whose life I did not want to destabilize. Professionally, I am mostly a software developer at the moment, though I am working on a book that is almost finished. I have bachelor's and master's degrees in computer science, did my graduate research in artificial intelligence, and was recently in the midst of joining a PhD program in neuroscience, but I put it off for a bit due to health reasons. I am better now, however, and will be resuming that as soon as my book is done. I am an independent thinker, am highly logical, and I don't drink or smoke. I really just love learning new things and leading a quiet life. I'm not sure what to write about myself beyond that. If you have any questions, just ask. Also, I answered the questions at the bottom of the profile, so if you want to know more about me, maybe read them. Those are easy to miss! P.S. I don't really live in the Virgin Islands. I'm just cautious about revealing my location to strangers online. My real location is, however, just as remote and foreign to most people as that one is (if in a totally different way), which is one of the reasons I chose it.
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Seeking

Ah. Well. Character and intelligence. Those are the big two, I would say. I am very serious about both. Someone who arrives at conclusions about reality for himself through the use of his own mind, rather than just believing whatever society or culture throws at him. Someone who has better things to...
Ah. Well. Character and intelligence. Those are the big two, I would say. I am very serious about both. Someone who arrives at conclusions about reality for himself through the use of his own mind, rather than just believing whatever society or culture throws at him. Someone who has better things to do with his limited time on this earth than check social media or watch television. Someone who will never stop learning new things and improving himself mentally. I want a strong, competent, ethical, independent partner--someone I can value and be proud of, and who will in turn value me for my own character and accomplishments. No boys who haven't figured out how to grow up. No one who thinks love and relationships equal drama. Also, no one with a drinking or drug problem. If you don't know if you have a drinking or drug problem, then you almost certainly do. I joined this site because I come from a military family and tend to share the same values as those in that lifestyle. Also, deployments and long absences are not an issue for me. Then there is the fact that I haven't dated in years, so I may be just a little nervous about possibly meeting someone who lives in the same country I do! So maybe this is just a way to put it off. I guess we'll see. In all seriousness, however, if you are not willing to spend a long period of time getting to know each other before potentially meeting in person someday, I will not be the right candidate for you. Another thing is that I am not a good match for a religious person of any kind. If your profile identifies you as a member of a religion and I do not reply to you, that is most likely why. I wish you the best, but trust me, it wouldn't work.
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More About Me

Tatiana

She's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Female
Male
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
39
30 - 54
Lives in:
US Virgin Islands, Virgin Islands, Virgin Islands (US)
Any
Relocate:
Not sure about relocating
Any

Appearance

Hair color:
Blonde
Any
Hair length:
Long
Any
Hair type:
Prefer not to say
Any
Eye color:
Brown
Any
Eye wear:
None
Any
Height:
5'7" (171 cm)
Any
Weight:
50 kg (110 lb)
64 kg (141 lb) - 114 kg (251 lb)
Body style:
Slim
Slim, Average, Athletic
Ethnicity:
Caucasian (White)
Caucasian (White)
Facial hair:
N/A
Any
Best feature:
Prefer not to say
Any
Body art:
None
Any
Appearance:
Very attractive
Any

Lifestyle

Drink:
Don't drink
Don't drink, Occasionally drink
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Don't smoke
Marital Status:
Single
Any
Have children:
Yes - live at home
Any
Number of children:
1
Any
Oldest child:
8
Any
Youngest child:
No Answer
Any
Want (more) children:
Not Sure
Any
Have pets:
Cat
Any
Occupation:
Technical / Science / Engineering
Any
Service branch:
Civilian (not in military)
Any
Employment status:
Prefer not to say
Any
Income:
Prefer not to say
Any
Home type:
Prefer not to say
Any
Living situation:
Prefer not to say
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
United States
Any
Education:
Masters Degree
Bachelors Degree, Masters Degree, PhD or Doctorate
Languages spoken:
English
Any
Political view:
Other
Any
Religion:
No religion
No religion
Star sign:
Don't Know
Any

Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Other, Computers / Internet, Cooking / Food and Wine, Dining Out, Education, Gardening / Landscaping, Library, Meditation, Movies / Cinema, Museums / Galleries, News / Politics, Pets, Reading, Science and Technology, Traveling, Video / Online Games, Writing

Food:

Other, American, French, Middle Eastern, Barbecue, German, Seafood, Cajun / Southern, Greek, California-Fusion, Indian, South American, Caribbean/Cuban, Italian, Southwestern, Chinese / Dim Sum, Japanese / Sushi, Continental, Jewish / Kosher, Thai, Korean, Vegetarian / Organic, Eastern European, Mediterranean, Vegan, Mexican, Vietnamese

Music:

Other

Sport:

Other, Darts, Jogging / Running, Martial Arts, Swimming

More About Me

Favorite Movie:

Gattaca

Favorite Book:

Too many to list

Favorite Food:

Food I cook

Favorite Music:

Stopped listening to it ages ago, for the most part. Used to be rock, classic rock, alternative, grunge, punk, and even some metal. Now . . . classical? When I listen, that is.

Dress Style:

I have no interest in fashion or trends. Absolutely none. In fact, if I ever express concern for what tag is on my handbag, please just shoot me! I dress classically and elegantly.

Humor:

Clean, spontaneous, clever, sometimes sarcastic but never cruel, sometimes sweet, and almost always suitable for a child to witness.

Hobbies & Interests:

I've done everything from spinning (as in yarn, on a spinning wheel) to knifesmithing. I am an atelier trained artist, and during my studies I used to draw for at least five hours a day. I'm an oil painter. I write a lot of code, although that isn't really a hobby. Honestly, for me there isn't much difference between hobbies and career interests, since it is all about learning and improving myself as a person. Generally, I just enjoy learning new skills and knowing how to do things when I need to. If I can't do something, I feel obligated to learn how.

Travelled:

I've lived all over the US, and elsewhere. Currently I live close to 5000 miles away from my family home. I have traveled to Mexico and the Bahamas, and generally would enjoy traveling most places with a Level 1 travel advisory and a working sewer system.

Cultural Adaption:

Culture is secondary to the person, I would say. My family is old world European (I am second generation, but was raised by my grandparents), and I think my cultural upbringing is probably not typical for an American. But then, is there any such thing as typical, anyway?

Romance:

I have no idea. I'm not particularly romantic, to be honest.

Personality:

Introverted, analytical, logical. Sometimes impatient.

My Perfect Match is:

That's the question, isn't it?

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