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Chirssy
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36 Parsippany, New Jersey, United States

Female / Divorced / ID: 249643

Seeking Male 25 - 40 living in United States For: Friendship, Romance / Dating

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Quick Overview

Chirssy

She's Looking For

Education:

Bachelors Degree
Any

Have children:

Yes - live at home
Any

Drink:

Don't drink
Any

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Don't smoke

Religion:

Christian
Any

Occupation:

Military
Any

Member Overview

I am learning to get back to me.... learning to remember what it is that I like to do, and who it is that I always set out to be.... Right now it seems like a perfect time to get back to me, time to find someone who compliments my values and quirks, someone who takes the time to smell the rose...
I am learning to get back to me.... learning to remember what it is that I like to do, and who it is that I always set out to be.... Right now it seems like a perfect time to get back to me, time to find someone who compliments my values and quirks, someone who takes the time to smell the roses without losing sight of the fact that time is of the essence and can never be recaptured once lost. I love to read a lot, I am an excellent cook and I can't stop making up new recipes and trying out new ones, on a down night, I like to relax on my couch, snuggled up with a great glass of wine and a good earthy movie. I am down to earth, and enjoy the simple things in life, but at the same time, I appreciate the finer things and on occasion will indulge myself a time or two. I recently met someone who taught me a priceless lesson: Life rarely follows a script or goes according to our plan, but the difference between a fufilled life and an ordinary one is how you affect the people around you. Even in the bleakest of situations, one can be a source of comfort and strength to others, if its only for a moment if only by a smile. I recognise that there is probably a huge cultural gap between myself and my mate, and it is important to me to meet someone who does not only respect this cultural gap, but allows me to maintain my cultural identity without alienating them. I am a LMN junkie when I do watch TV and much like most of the holiday movies they have I guess it will just be really nice to have my holiday miracle be Mr Right for me... .....What I cant dream?....lol Looking forward to talking to you none the less ~C~
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Seeking

My perfect mate understands that while they are important to me, being a mother to my two kids is my top most priority, and so is being a soldier, it is a commitment I made, and a responsibility, duty and privilege I do not take for granted it is important to me to meet someone who does not only ...
My perfect mate understands that while they are important to me, being a mother to my two kids is my top most priority, and so is being a soldier, it is a commitment I made, and a responsibility, duty and privilege I do not take for granted it is important to me to meet someone who does not only respect this cultural gap, but allows me to maintain my cultural identity without alienating them
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More About Me

Chirssy

She's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Female
Male
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
36
25 - 40
Lives in:
Parsippany, New Jersey, United States
United States
Relocate:
Not willing to relocate
Any

Appearance

Hair color:
Black
Any
Hair length:
Medium
Any
Hair type:
Wavy
Any
Eye color:
Brown
Any
Eye wear:
Contacts
Any
Height:
5'2" (158 cm)
5'8" (173 cm) - 6'4" (194 cm)
Weight:
58 kg (128 lb)
40 kg (88 lb) - 120 kg (264 lb)
Body style:
Slim
Slim, Average, Athletic, Full Figured
Ethnicity:
Black
Any
Facial hair:
N/A
Any
Best feature:
My Lips
Any
Body art:
None
Any
Appearance:
Attractive
Any

Lifestyle

Drink:
Don't drink
Any
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Don't smoke
Marital Status:
Divorced
Single, Divorced, Widowed
Have children:
Yes - live at home
Any
Number of children:
2
Any
Oldest child:
8
Any
Youngest child:
5
Any
Want (more) children:
No
Any
Have pets:
No Pets
Any
Occupation:
Military
Any
Service branch:
Army
Any
Employment status:
Full Time
Any
Income:
$60,001 - $120,000 USD
Any
Home type:
Town house
Any
Living situation:
Live with kids
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
United States
Any
Education:
Bachelors Degree
Any
Languages spoken:
Other
Any
Political view:
Prefer not to say
Any
Religion:
Christian
Any
Star sign:
Capricorn
Any

Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Astrology, Ballet, Beach / Parks, Comedy Clubs, Concerts / Live Music, Cooking / Food and Wine, Dancing, Dining Out, Education, Family, Library, Music (Listening), Movies / Cinema, Philosophy / Spirituality, Photography, Poetry, Reading, Theatre, Traveling, TV: Entertainment, Volunteering, Writing

Food:

American, French, Cajun / Southern, Caribbean/Cuban, Italian, Japanese / Sushi, Thai, Korean, Eastern European, Mediterranean, Mexican, Vietnamese

Music:

Alternative, Classical / Opera, Country / Folk, Dance / Techno, Jazz / Blues, New Age, Pop, Rap, Reggae, Religious, R'n'B / Hip Hop

Sport:

Other, Basketball, Bowling, Soccer, Squash / Racquetball, Table Tennis, Volleyball, Walking, Yoga / Pilates

More About Me

Favorite Movie:

The Notebook

Favorite Book:

Anything Dan Brown

Favorite Food:

Anything I make

Favorite Music:

I will listen to anything except heavy metal. Favorite right now though is Ledisi!

Dress Style:

I dress for the occassion, as comfortable in an updo as I am in sweats betting against u on the couch for who is going to be taking down trash for the next month!!!!

Humor:

I love to laugh and if u can make me definate bonus!!!

Hobbies & Interests:

Anything legal with a rush will be tried at least 1x.

Travelled:

Egypt, Ethiopia, Tanzania, UAE, Ghana, Britain

Cultural Adaption:

VERY!!!! Makes for fun fumbles

Romance:

Good Company...Great sites...Lack of airs and pretence...Amazingingly unforgettanle cuisine...

Personality:

I am a walking contradiction, I am caring yet reserved, a clown yet rather studious, ambitious yet I somehow manage to be extremely shy. I try to live life to the fullest, within the confines of what is legal. I give 100% of to anything that I put my heart out to do. I laugh until I cry, cry until I am dry and sometimes just alternate between the two. I am passionate, hardworking and dedicated. I work hard, and tend to play even harder. I love being a soldier, yes it is hard on me, but no, I won't change my decision for all the gold in Knox... Wait is there really gold in Knox??? Lol I am a goof ball and a sweetheart, I am loyal, and will stand by a friend through pretty much anything. True to my sign I tend to be stubborn, sometimes even when it is to my detriment. I believe every life lesson is just that, I try to take from it, and not relive past pains... I am not perfect, when I get there I will probably die...I enjoy life, love and laughter and hope to meet someone who shares some if not all of these views

My Perfect Match is:

Someone who can laugh at me and himself, and understand the importance of being a haven for each other, outside the stressors of work and life. Someone into whose arms I can escape at the end of a long day and feel safe, and hopefully he feels the same having me in his (A best friend and an even better lover (just being realistic that is an extremely important part of this union)

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