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James
Standard Member
Last active: over 12 months ago

45 Baltimore, Maryland, United States

Male / Separated / ID: 358158

Seeking Female 18 - 40 living within 50 kms of Baltimore, Maryland, United States For: Penpal, Friendship

Last active: over 12 months ago

Overview

James

He's Looking For

Education:

High School
Any

Have children:

Yes - live at home
Any

Drink:

Don't drink
Any

Smoke:

Do smoke
Any

Religion:

Christian
Christian

Occupation:

Military
Any

Member Overview

There are a few things that you need to know about me that will never change no matter who I am with in the future. Number one and above all; I am a Christian and a Child of God. Number two; always and forever, I am a Daddy. Notice I did not refer to myself as a Father. Keep reading and you will kno...
There are a few things that you need to know about me that will never change no matter who I am with in the future. Number one and above all; I am a Christian and a Child of God. Number two; always and forever, I am a Daddy. Notice I did not refer to myself as a Father. Keep reading and you will know why if you haven’t picked up on my beliefs yet. Number three; I am a very devout family man. Outside of my Christianity, there is nothing more important to me. Finally; I am a diehard automotive enthusiast dealing with everything from motorcycles to boats, with a special emphasis on muscle cars. I own a bike and two sports cars. I love the aspects of being a man. I like manual labor because it keeps me in shape and makes me feel good about making accomplishments. I like feeling like there is a genuine need for a shower at the end of the day because you worked. I am very old fashioned and love the country lifestyle, although I haven’t had the opportunity to experience it for very long periods of time. My goal is to have a piece of property in a po-dunk town with a private shop out back geared towards custom cars and bikes. I want chickens running around in the front yard and a few other animals around. I like to catch/kill what I eat and I love keeping old family traditions alive such as canning and community gardens. The reason I like country life is because of the people. Country people may get in your business from time to time but it is because they love and care for you and not because they just want to be nosey. I don’t want to be cut off from civilization but I do NOT like city life. I’m a redneck but not a hick. (Not that I have anything against a hick) I believe in being thankful for the crappy stuff that you do have instead of being jealous because you don’t have what others do. I have been known to be a packrat if the item is old enough. I believe America was much happier when we had less and people respected one another. Once again, I am very old fashioned. I don’t believe in sex before marriage and the man is responsible for treating a woman like a lady and women are supposed to act like ladies. This is not to say that they are subdued but men have roles and women have roles. With that said, I also believe that there are many things that men and women can do alike and women can sometimes do things better. Being a mechanic has traditionally been known to be performed by a man but I have no issues taking lessons from a woman that is better at it than I am. Wives should submit to their husbands but that doesn’t mean they are slaves and have no opinion. Husbands are to submit to their wives in the same respect. A husband and wife should be as one with one united thought pattern as concerned with the marriage. I rushed into my first marriage and I will not do that again, although I would not change things as it gave me two beautiful and wonderful girls and it made me who I am today. I don’t make unreasonable promises for the future as I am very realistic about life. I love to cook and am currently working on a family recipe book. I am told that I am very good at it and no one has croaked yet. A few have choked but I know the Hiemlicke maneuver. Not sure how that’s spelled. I won’t say that I am drama free as I believe that is impossible. I do have very little, however. I am educated, although I have not met my goals yet. I am very goal orientated and I know what I would like to have in life, as long as it is consistent with what God has planned for my life. I am physically fit. I am in the Army and it kindof comes with the territory. I am currently recovering from a minor back injury and not being able to do physical training is killing me. I am a Physical Readiness Trainer among my many duties. I do live a busy lifestyle because of the Church, the Army, and the fact that I am a privileged single parent of two teenage daughters. I do not have a bad relationship with my “X” but am planning a divorce in the near future.
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Seeking

If your Christian walk with Christ is not the single most important thing in your life, I am NOT interested. This is a requirement and will not be waived. If you are interested in living the blessed and forgiven life that I live, I am more than willing to tell you of the wonderful gospel of Jesus Ch...
If your Christian walk with Christ is not the single most important thing in your life, I am NOT interested. This is a requirement and will not be waived. If you are interested in living the blessed and forgiven life that I live, I am more than willing to tell you of the wonderful gospel of Jesus Christ. I am looking for a LONGTERM relationship EVENTUALLY. Right now I am only looking for friendships. I will not ignore a message. I am very direct and upfront and anyone that knows me will tell you this. If I am not interested I will certainly tell you that I am not interested from the beginning. If I desire a friendship with you then I will tell you from the beginning. If all we will ever be is friends, again, I will tell you from the beginning. With me there are no “LEADONS”. I am very upfront and direct with my intentions. I have very high standards and I know exactly what I want. I am very comfortable not having a partner right now and the way I look at it, I have the rest of my life to find the right one for me. I am not arrogant but when you are talking about the rest of your lives, patience is key. My definition of beauty is a culmination of a few things. The first aspect is a Christian mentality. Morals and values must be consistent with God’s Word. I like old fashioned girls. I Live humor. I use humor all day long and have caused more than one person to reroute liquids through their noses instead of down the throat. It wasn’t intentional but quite entertaining. I have been known to frequently make fun of myself, as it is pretty easy to do. I don’t think I could survive without humor. Personality is very important. “Opposites attract” is garbage! “Like minds think alike” and “Two peas in a pod” is more like it. I am looking for someone to compliment me and not contrast me. Eventually, I want to fight over who loves who more. I want to fight over who gets to cook dinner because we both have that special dinner planned since we are both off work for the day. I want someone who likes the little handmade things more than the diamond ring from the jewelry store. I want handmade birthday cards made from construction paper, cutouts, and crayons. This means you put in more time than it takes to buy one from WallyWorld. Yes, I said WallyWorld. I want someone that likes to go by car instead of flying, no matter the distance. I want someone that likes to go shopping without buying anything just to go look at stuff. I want a workout partner so we can motivate each other. I want someone that won’t get mad at me if I fart on the couch after dinner. I like country girls. I don’t like show-offs. I like women that are not afraid to get dirty to help out. I like manners. I like girls who want the door opened for them. I like goals. It doesn’t matter if you work at McDonalds as long as you have direction and a plan for your life. I like independence that turns into a MUTUAL dependence on each other. I love honesty and openness. I want to cuddle. Yes, I said cuddle. I like the feel of a woman that loves me being close. I must have faithfulness and complete loyalty, as those are my own values. I expect sacrifice, as I am willing to give sacrifice for the ones I love. Sacrifice can be a very fulfilling thing if done with love. I want understanding. I am different and unique. If you don’t understand me then have the desire to want to. If I ask you what is wrong, confide in me so that I may comfort you because I have the desire to understand you. If you have made it this far in my profile, I look forward to hearing from you.
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More About Me

James

He's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Male
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
45
18 - 40
Lives in:
Baltimore, Maryland, United States
within 50 kms of Baltimore, Maryland, United States
Relocate:
Not willing to relocate
Willing to relocate to another country, Willing to relocate within my country, Not sure about relocating

Appearance

Hair color:
Brown
Light Brown, Brown, Black, Red, Blonde, Changes frequently
Hair length:
Short
Any
Hair type:
Straight
Any
Eye color:
Brown
Any
Eye wear:
None
Any
Height:
5'8" (173 cm)
Any
Weight:
77 kg (169 lb)
40 kg (88 lb) - 77 kg (169 lb)
Body style:
Average
Petite, Slim, Average, Athletic
Ethnicity:
Caucasian (White)
Other, Arab (Middle Eastern), Asian, Caucasian (White), Hispanic / Latino, Indian, Pacific Islander, Mixed
Facial hair:
Clean Shaven
N/A
Best feature:
My Hands
Any
Body art:
Tattoo
Any
Appearance:
Average
Any

Lifestyle

Drink:
Don't drink
Any
Smoke:
Do smoke
Any
Marital Status:
Separated
Single, Separated, Divorced, Widowed
Have children:
Yes - live at home
Any
Number of children:
2
Any
Oldest child:
14
Any
Youngest child:
13
Any
Want (more) children:
Not Sure
Any
Have pets:
Dog
Any
Occupation:
Military
Any
Service branch:
Army
Any
Employment status:
Full Time
Any
Income:
No Answer
Any
Home type:
Other
Any
Living situation:
Live with kids
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
United States
Any
Education:
High School
Any
Languages spoken:
English
Any
Political view:
Not interested
Any
Religion:
Christian
Christian
Star sign:
Taurus
Any

Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Antiques, Beach / Parks, Camping / Nature, Cars / Mechanics, Collecting, Computers / Internet, Cooking / Food and Wine, Dining Out, Education, Family, Gardening / Landscaping, Home Improvement, Music (Listening), Motorcycles, Pets, Philosophy / Spirituality, Poetry, Writing

Food:

American, Middle Eastern, Barbecue, Seafood, Cajun / Southern, Soul Food, Chinese / Dim Sum, Mexican

Music:

Jazz / Blues, Religious, Rock, Soft Rock

Sport:

American Football, Auto Racing, Boating / Sailing, Canoe / Kayak, Fishing, Gym / Weight Training, Hiking, Horse Riding, Jet / Water Skiing, Martial Arts, Motor Sports, Scuba Diving / Snorkeling, Swimming

More About Me

Favorite Food:

I like to cook so you can't like to cook without absolutely loving to eat. I am pretty deversified when it comes to food. It would be easier for me to tell you what I WON'T eat. Oysters, liver, okra, squash, zuchini, and never again will I try octopus. I will try just about anything once and repeatidly if I like it enough.

Favorite Music:

I am mostly into classic rock such as Led, Ozzy, Aerosmith, Steve Miller Band....... Basically your 70's and 80's hair bands. Just as much as I enjoy the hairbands of yesteryear, I love saxiphone inspired jazz. I drive my kids crazy with it. lol

Dress Style:

After being married for almost 15 years, I am learning what not to wear these days. lol Other than that, I am in uniform most of the time anyways.

Humor:

I am the funniest thing around......Just ask me.

Hobbies & Interests:

I am a classic muscle car entusiast and a very avid bike rider. My motorcycle is sometimes so enjoying it is theraputic to me. Both my daughters ride as well.

Travelled:

I have been to Saudi Arabia twice, Iraq 4 times, and I have passed through Ireland, Germany, and Spain several times. I would like to go many places but I really love the country I live in so if were to have to be over seas, it would have to be Hawaii. I would absolutely love to be stationed there, as the beach is my most favorite place on earth!

Cultural Adaption:

The relationship between two people knows no cultural boundaries. I would not even consider it an adaptive period rather just getting to know one another.

Romance:

I hate to sound like just about everyone else but a weekend at a quiet beach is the ultimate romantic getaway for me. There is no other place on earth that is more romantic than the crashing of the waves on a moonlit beach. Hands down...

Personality:

I am very outgoing and very generous. Not as far as money is concerned...my girls get most of that these days.

My Perfect Match is:

I don't know if there really is a "perfect match". I believe that a person who is willing to change their lifestyle to suit another's emotional needs is what it is all about. This change is good for both individuals and is welcomed by both. It is not something that is downright demanded or even expected. It is something that is completely voluntary and in most cases, happens without the person even knowing that it is happening. I could go on to say blond hair, blue eyes, a great body, and beautiful skin all day but that doesn't mean that someone that doesn't have those characteristics can't make me happy as a man. Really I just want someone that takes care of themselves and who will care for me for who I am and be there for me when I need someone. Looks are important but not as important as being a true companion.

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