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Ben
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Last active: over 12 months ago

55 Charleston, South Carolina, United States

Male / ID: 790557

Seeking Female 35 - 50 living within 50 kms of Charleston, South Carolina, United States For: Romance / Dating

Last active: over 12 months ago

Overview

Ben

He's Looking For

Education:

PhD or Doctorate
Bachelors Degree,Masters Degree,PhD or Doctorate

Have children:

Yes - don't live at home
Any

Drink:

Occasionally drink
Occasionally drink

Smoke:

Do smoke
Don't smoke

Religion:

No Answer
Any

Occupation:

Legal
Any

Member Overview

I am separated with no chance of reconciliation. Not looking back. Ready to move on with life while still being a good father to my 3 kids who live in another City with their mother. Kids visit every other weekend. Have served dual USAR and civilian careers all my adult life and love both jobs. ...
I am separated with no chance of reconciliation. Not looking back. Ready to move on with life while still being a good father to my 3 kids who live in another City with their mother. Kids visit every other weekend. Have served dual USAR and civilian careers all my adult life and love both jobs. I enjoy running and exercising, fishing, exploring, seeing live bands and dancing, cooking stir fry, and seafood. The ocean soothes my soul and I love being near the ocean. The beach is my playground! Also love the mountains and love to snow ski. I have never dated military, but find a lot more in common with fellow military and especially vets. I know I would be a better match for a female with military service than non-military. The ex just did not support my military service.
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Seeking

I seek a fun female with a positive can-do attitude who embraces life, enjoys keeping in shape and staying active, who love the beach and outdoors. I'm not a party animal, and have two demanding jobs; but I do enjoy going out to see live bands on occasions and dancing to a full sweat, completely ca...
I seek a fun female with a positive can-do attitude who embraces life, enjoys keeping in shape and staying active, who love the beach and outdoors. I'm not a party animal, and have two demanding jobs; but I do enjoy going out to see live bands on occasions and dancing to a full sweat, completely carefree. Other times, I would enjoy just staying home with a female pal, preparing a great meal together, having a good glass of wine, cuddling on the couch, and watching a good movie. I have traveled to Europe and the Middle East and love keeping up to date with world events and reading about other countries and cultures, especially those areas where I might end up visiting. I am middle of the road on politics and do not align steadfast to any one political party. It depends on the situation our country is in at the time and the qualities of the candidates. I am not seeking a rebound. I am perfectly independent and comfortable alone, but would love to find a female to hang out with, have fun, and just take it as it goes. I do not fear rejection; so if we meet and do not click, no big deal. nothing lost for either of us. Its just part of the journey to happiness and success. Either way, it keeps life interesting. If we click, great! Lets have fun and enjoy life to the fullest together. I prefer someone in the Charleston, SC area. If we are far apart, how can we spend time together. I am not really into trying to juggle multiple relationships. I'd prefer to find one girlfriend and stick with her as long as it works out for both of us.
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More About Me

Ben

He's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Male
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
55
35 - 50
Lives in:
Charleston, South Carolina, United States
within 50 kms of Charleston, South Carolina, United States
Relocate:
Not willing to relocate
Not sure about relocating

Appearance

Hair color:
Bald / Shaved
Any
Eye color:
Blue
Any
Height:
5'10" (178 cm)
Any
Weight:
80 kg (176 lb)
Any
Body style:
Average
Petite,Slim,Average,Athletic
Ethnicity:
No Answer
Any
Body art:
None
Any
Appearance:
Attractive
Very attractive,Attractive,Average

Lifestyle

Drink:
Occasionally drink
Occasionally drink
Smoke:
Do smoke
Don't smoke
Marital Status:
No Answer
Any
Have children:
Yes - don't live at home
Any
Number of children:
3
Any
Oldest child:
16
Any
Youngest child:
7
Any
Want (more) children:
Not Sure
Any
Have pets:
Prefer not to say
Any
Occupation:
Legal
Any
Service branch:
Army
Any
Employment status:
Full Time
Any
Annual income:
Prefer not to say
Any
Living situation:
Live Alone
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
United States
Any
Education:
PhD or Doctorate
Bachelors Degree,Masters Degree,PhD or Doctorate
Languages spoken:
English
Any
Religion:
No Answer
Any
Star sign:
Virgo
Any

Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Bars / Pubs / Nightclubs, Camping / Nature, Computers / Internet, Concerts / Live Music, Cooking / Food and Wine, Dancing, Dining Out, Family, Music (Playing), Meditation, News / Politics, Watching Sports, Wine Tasting

Food:

American, German, Seafood, Cajun / Southern, Italian, Chinese / Dim Sum, Mediterranean

Music:

Country / Folk, Jazz / Blues, Reggae, R'n'B / Hip Hop, Rock, Soft Rock, World

Sport:

American Football, Cycling, Fishing, Golf, Gym / Weight Training, Hiking, Jet / Water Skiing, Jogging / Running, Skiing / Snowboarding, Surfing, Swimming, Walking

More About Me

Favorite Movie:

Outlaw Josey Wales

Favorite Book:

Lord of the Rings Triology

Favorite Food:

Seafood, Asian stir fry, MREs (except the Frankfurter).

Favorite Music:

Almost all types. Especially Classic Rock, Motown/R&B, Soul

Dress Style:

Dress fairly formal for work, but prefer jeans and neat/clean tee shirts or other casual wear when off from work. I can dress for all occasions as needed.

Humor:

I call it good. My teenage daughters roll their eyes sometimes and laugh other times. My 7 y/o son laughs at me all the time..

Hobbies & Interests:

Beach jogging, fishing, exploring outdoors, traveling, cooking

Travelled:

Been to Germany, Italy (multiple times), and Middle East. all US east coast, some deep south, and mid west. Would love to see the west coast.

Cultural Adaption:

Very adaptive.

Romance:

Interesting new place for both of us where there is good romantic lodging, preferably with a fireplace. Good food and wine, and fun beautiful areas to explore during the day Nice private balcony or porch with a great view, and a nice evening of good conversation, cuddling, kissing, and love.

Personality:

Easy going, happy, adventurous, hard working when at work, and hair down and relaxed when off from work (as much as possible for a head shaven man).

My Perfect Match is:

Easy going. Happy. Positive attitude. Independent. Adventurous. Not too prissy or high maintenance. Open view about other peoples' beliefs and cultures. Loves the beach and outdoors. Romantic and likes to be spicy to keep the flame glowing.

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