First, my man must be a leader, like me. Not domineering but smart and tactful and in charge. He must be a one-woman man only, Christian and loving, and want a respectful, loyal woman not afraid to dance on a pole ... For his eyes only! He must wear his pants on his behind like an adult, work hard, love animals and Jesus and family, and not play video games. I want him to be able to call me Baby when we are old, and be adored in return. I am disease, STD, and addiction-free, so must he be. He will spoil me and be adored in return as the man of the house. I need to work, but I am fine with him being the main breadwinner. Kids are a big plus. I love them and would like to be a stepparent or an adoptive one . I need someone EDUCATED and intelligent, willing to talk and not be judgmental. Good hygiene is non-negotiable. I can't wait to meet you!