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Dave
Platinum Member
43
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Citrus Heights, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 32 - 55
Hair color:
Brown
Hey there! I'm Dave, a proud Army veteran
Hey there! I'm Dave, a proud Army veteran with a penchant for adventure and a heart full of warmth. Life has thrown some interesting twists my way, and after navigating those, I find myself eager to embrace new beginnings and exciting experiences. I'm based in the charming town of Colfax, California, and while it's a beautiful place to call home, I'm on the lookout for someone special who can make my world even brighter. Recently divorced.
Jonathan
Platinum Member
Verified
25
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New York, New York, United States
Seeking:
Female 22 - 36
Hair color:
Brown
Looking to for something long term/romantic
I live having fun, travelling, and new experiences. I am easy-going and value time with friends.
Erik
Standard Member
Verified
36
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Arlington, Virginia, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 45
Hair color:
Brown
Almafi Coast
Hi, my name is Erik. I enjoy working with computers, playing ice hockey, and snowboarding. I have been to Italy twice and plan on returning to Europe. I like to travel, however school and business can sometimes make that hard, but thanks to the internet many things can be done from anywhere. What I’m doing with my life: I am working on a degree in psychology. I am currently an Army Reservist, and work with computers and websites. I am planning to go further into my field of study while maintaining my current work with website development and computer services. I’m really good at: I am a good hockey player, as well as snowboarder. I am good at fixing things and developing websites/marketing and mostly enjoy the reward once I have accomplished a difficult task. Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food After recent trips to Europe I fell in love with pasta, I am a big pasta fan, and enjoy many italian foods. I also like a variety of other food.
Breg
Standard Member
55
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Missoula, Montana, United States
Seeking:
Female 40 - 81
Hair color:
Brown
Looking for My Equal—In Love, Life, and Laughter”
I’m someone who believes that love is built on trust, respect, and genuine care—not just chemistry. I’m emotionally mature, grounded, and value open communication. I show up fully in my relationships—with consistency, compassion, and a heart that truly listens. Kindness and loyalty aren’t just words to me; they’re how I live. I take joy in the little things—deep conversations, shared laughs, meaningful moments—and I’m ready to build something real with someone who values connection just as much as I do. I’m not here for games or temporary distractions. I’m here for honesty, emotional safety, and the kind of partnership where we support each other through the ups and downs. If you’re looking for someone who will love with intention, care with depth, and walk beside you with both strength and softness, then we might be a good match.
Sean
Standard Member
49
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Hutchinson, Kansas, United States
Seeking:
Female 27 - 50
Hair color:
Brown
Why must everything be so hard...
I'm a HUGE smartass. I am a mixture of sarcasm, dry humor, fun, laughs, goofiness, seriousness, love, caring, etc. I'm up for just about anything. I'm a thrill seeker. Anything that makes my heart feel like it's about to literally jump out of my chest! I'm the type of guy that will do just about anything once, and if I don't like it, I wont do it again. If I wasn't quite sure about it the first time, then I'll do it again just to make sure! If you have any questions, just ask. I'm pretty much an open book!
Shawn
Standard Member
Verified
57
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Franklin, Tennessee, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 40
Hair color:
Brown
I Block those who don't read my requirements. I D...
Highly educated, numerous degrees and certifications. Financially independent. Outgoing, Good listener. Enjoy reading and traveling amongst other things. Not moody so don't be either.
Alex
Standard Member
Verified
35
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Newark, Ohio, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 40
Hair color:
Brown
Retired and looking for someone to hang out with
Medically retired from the Army (100% P&T iykyk lol) and self employed just to stay busy. Love getting over fears by making them my hobbies. Looking for someone that wants to try new things. Single parent of two teenagers, 17F and 14M. Yes I had them
Carl
Standard Member
Verified
69
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San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 51 - 71
Hair color:
Brown
Looking For Healthy Love
I’m positive, upbeat, sometimes shy/quiet, sometimes loud/vocal, old school, down to earth, easy listening, care free, practical joker, free spirited, one woman man type, likes a few sports like college football and basketball but I don’t have to watch every game, likes holding hands, some forms of PDA, some kissing if the chemistry is right, I have a vivid imagination and a wild sense of humor and I mean you no harm-ever but I’m always willing to share what I have with you. My love language is physical touch and words of affirmation. Remember, I’m not perfect, I’m just me. If I’ve written to you, then I have a genuine interest in you and I would love it if you were to get in touch with me as soon as you can, thanks to all for taking the time to read me and I wish us all the Best of Luck as we look for Healthy Love.
James C.
Standard Member
67
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Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 50 - 85
Hair color:
Brown
Let's write a story we'll love telling forever.
I have always been a firm believer that the world is filled with a quiet, beautiful magic, but I also know that this magic only truly comes alive when you have the right person to share it with. I am a hopeless romantic down to my very bones: the kind of person who still believes in soulmates, slow dances in the kitchen when no one else is watching, and saving handwritten love letters in a wooden box. To me, love isn't just a casual chapter in a book; it is the whole story. I’m not just looking for a partner to share a dinner with; I am searching for a soul connection, a best friend, a passionate lover, and a partner in every sense of the word. If you are looking for someone who will adore you gently, champion your dreams fiercely, and love you a little more with each passing sunrise, then I hope you’ll stay and read a little longer. To be completely honest, I have never been interested in a simple checklist of traits, nor am I searching for a superficial definition of perfection. What my heart truly longs for cannot be captured in a few words on a page. I am searching for a feeling, a beautiful, soul-stirring, and life-altering connection that makes the rest of the world quietly fade into the background. I am looking for a partner in the truest, most sacred sense of the word. Someone who will become my favorite hello, my hardest goodbye, the keeper of my secrets, and the sweet, comforting rhythm to my everyday life. I want to find the person who makes me look at the future not with worry, but with a heart full of anticipation and joy.
DJuane
Standard Member
Verified
45
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 25 - 44
Hair color:
Brown
Reciprocally affectionate loving honest loyal
I feel I’m the best of both worlds. Im spontaneous and adventurous. However I do enjoy being at home relaxing or in quite places to just enjoy life without the fast pace or distractions. I’m an entrepreneur that enjoys writing and reading as well as
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David
Standard Member
60
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Newport News, Virginia, United States
Seeking:
Female 44 - 69
Hair color:
Brown
Looking for a friendly, qualified travel partner!
I served in the Marine Corps and retired from the Army.
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Austin Miller
Standard Member
63
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Honolulu, Hawaii, United States
Seeking:
Female 52 - 90
Hair color:
Brown
Looking for a Beautiful Connection ❤️
I’m a man who believes that the most beautiful things in life are built on honesty, kindness, loyalty, and genuine affection. I’m naturally caring and attentive, and I enjoy making the people I care about feel valued, appreciated, and safe to be themselves around me. I have a soft spot for meaningful conversations, laughter, good energy, and those little moments that can turn an ordinary day into something special. I’m romantic at heart, and I believe love isn’t only about beautiful words; it’s about consistency, understanding, patience, and being there when it truly matters. I’m someone who appreciates a woman with a beautiful heart, a warm smile, and a personality that makes me want to know her more and more. I love getting to know someone beyond the surface: her dreams, her passions, the things that make her laugh, and even the little things she may not tell everyone. Most importantly, I’m looking for something genuine. I want a connection where two people can communicate openly, care deeply for one another, support each other’s dreams, and still have plenty of fun and laughter along the way. I believe when two hearts meet with the right intentions, something truly beautiful can grow from it. ❤️
James C
Standard Member
67
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Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 50 - 90
Hair color:
Brown
I am saving all my softest sighs just for you.
If you were to sit across from me in a candlelit room, you would find a heart that still believes in the sacred magic of true devotion. I am someone who finds profound beauty in the quiet things: the gentle curve of a smile across a crowded room, the warmth of a hand lingering just a second longer than it should, and the way a single sweet word can make the rest of the world completely fade away. My soul has always belonged to another era, one where letters were written by hand with trembling fingers, where courtships were patient and deliberate, and where love was treated like the rarest, most fragile treasure on earth. I am deeply romantic, perhaps hopelessly so, because I still believe that people are meant to be cherished, listened to, and loved with an intensity that defies time itself. When I care for someone, I pour every ounce of my warmth, my loyalty, and my tenderness into them, making sure they feel wrapped in safety and adoration. I am searching for a rare kind of connection, a gentle harbor where our hearts can finally rest, where we can share soft laughter, whispered secrets under the stars, and a love story so tender, sweet, and deeply felt that it feels like poetry coming to life. If your heart still longs for that old-fashioned, all-encompassing, soul-stirring kind of magic, then perhaps our paths were always meant to cross.
James Charles
Standard Member
67
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Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 50 - 85
Hair color:
Brown
You are my today and all of my tomorrows.
If you could peer past the noise of this modern world and look straight into my soul, you would find a man belonging to an entirely different era. I am a creature of old-school devotion and old-fashioned romance, a man who believes in letters written by hand, promises kept for a lifetime, and the quiet, sacred magic of simply walking side-by-side with your hand safely locked in mine through every season of life. For all the years of my life that came before you, my heart was a quiet wanderer. I walked through the days with a persistent, longing prayer echoing in my chest. While the rest of the world chased fleeting things, my only true ambition, the singular prayer I offered up to the quiet heavens year after year. was simply to find you. I spent a lifetime waiting for the day my path would cross with the woman meant for me, unaware of how deeply I needed you until you finally appeared. Now that you are here, the waiting finally makes sense. Every lonely hour, every past trial, and every step of my journey was just a road leading me straight to your doorstep. All of my heart, every single beat, every breath, and every ounce of devotion I have to give belongs entirely to you. You are the woman I have finally, miraculously met, and you are the only one with whom I want to build a future, a home, and a legacy. Let us slow down the pace of this rushing world. I want to build our life together the old-fashioned way: brick by patient brick, anchored by unwavering loyalty, deep respect, and a love that never grows tired. You are my answered prayer, my ultimate peace, and the destination my soul has been searching for my entire life. With all my heart, yesterday, today, and for all the days to come, I am entirely yours.
Jonathan
Standard Member
Verified
40
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Denver, Colorado, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 47
Hair color:
Brown
Looking for who is afloat in this ocean of emotion
Combat veteran from the 3rd Cavalry. I am a creative soul looking to make the world better and brighter.
Siegel
Standard Member
53
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Cincinnati, Ohio, United States
Seeking:
Female 45 - 75
Hair color:
Brown
I do a lot in terms of work 😊
One thing people might notice about me at a first glance could be how they think i am approachable than when they try to talk to me I'm a yapper..haha
Mike
Standard Member
47
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Cabot, Arkansas, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 55
Hair color:
Brown
Looking for the one
47 disabled vet
Rick
Standard Member
Verified
50
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Palmdale, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 45
Hair color:
Brown
Looking for a lifetime wife!
Im an easy going guy. Technically retired and taking care of mom's (she still does 5k runs so im security and fix the house)
Dylan
Standard Member
41
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Lambeth, London (Greater), United Kingdom
Seeking:
Female 26 - 63
Hair color:
Brown
Trust in God
Simple and trustworthy guy
Jonathan
Standard Member
59
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Jacksonville, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 55 - 70
Hair color:
Brown
Love and be Loved back...Life is to short
Truthfulness and respect matter a lot to me. What truly draws me closer to a woman is who she is on the inside. I believe that's far more important than outward beauty, because while beauty may fade with time, a good heart only grows more valuable.
John
Standard Member
47
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San Jose, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 65
Hair color:
Brown
Love is a beautiful thing.
I'm an easy going type of man, I can bring excitement in life . I am fun loving, creative and at peace. I appreciate others and respect other people's feelings, opinions and cultures. I believe that we are children still at heart, capable of wonder, revelry and change, but, something should be stable...I'm very positive, spontaneous, warm, witty, well-reasoned, honest, open minded .
Scott
Standard Member
52
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Knutsford, Cheshire, United Kingdom
Seeking:
Female 50 - 72
Hair color:
Brown
Seeking my soulmate !
So how do you write this without sounding conceited! Well here goes ... I'm easy going, good natured & friendly with a good sense of humor. Also very caring, considerate, thoughtful, reliable, honest, loyal, educated & sincere. I'm also totally faithful, loving, romantic & genuine ! In short an up to date gentleman with traditional values who will never let you down & only on here for all the right reasons! So having not yet found Miss Right, I'm giving this a try. I enjoy keeping fit so that involves hiking/walking, jogging, playing tennis, five a side football , cycling /mountain biking , gym, skiing. I enjoy eating in/out and socializing, nothing like a good meal, wine and conversation, particularly with close friends. Also occasional nights down the pub. I'm really into music... all sorts! Enjoy listening to the radio, watching TV(particularly anything that's funny), occasional visits to the theater, cinema, etc. Enjoy traveling ...particularly into the historical & cultural side of destinations, always impressed by old & magnificent buildings.
Jace
Standard Member
21
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Dallas, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 31
Hair color:
Brown
I’m killing time here if I find my love great if I...
I’m very unbothered, love the outdoors, movies, music and just living my life
Steven kelly
Standard Member
29
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Rock Hill, South Carolina, United States
Seeking:
Female 40 - 65
Hair color:
Brown
As a serving member of the army and a passionate outdoor instructor, I lead bushcraft and survival sessions that blend military discipline with practical wilderness skills. Whether it’s fire-making, outdoor cooking, or building resilience in nature,
Austin
Standard Member
34
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Durham, North Carolina, United States
Seeking:
Female 21 - 39
Hair color:
Brown
I need someone that will give me peace of mind
I’m straight and caring
Robert
Standard Member
Verified
51
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Phoenix, Arizona, United States
Seeking:
Female 25 - 40
Hair color:
Brown
Once upon a time ...
Leo - Romantic
shawn
Standard Member
45
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Fort Worth, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 45
Hair color:
Brown
hey everybody
I love to travel and try new things. I'm a huge nerd, so I love books, models and other things. Looking for my adventure partner. This place is full of fakes it seems. If you are real then send me the word (blue). So I know your real
Stefan
Standard Member
63
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Malmö, Skåne, Sweden
Seeking:
Female 24 - 58
Hair color:
Brown
Living life in every way
Enjoying life and its differnt aspects
Todd
Standard Member
39
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Colorado Springs, Colorado, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 55
Hair color:
Brown
I got bored once just to see what it felt like
I live my life not by each breath but the moments that take my breath away.I thoroughly believe that life is about the ride and not the destination
Jonathan
Standard Member
25
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Watertown, New York, United States
Seeking:
Female 21 - 30
Hair color:
Brown
25 and ready to settle down and start a family
I love gaming, fishing and being outdoors
Steven
Standard Member
44
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Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking:
Female 25 - 45
Hair color:
Brown
Be kind. Be curious. Be yourself
Just your average man, trying to live the dream.
Nate
Standard Member
37
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Rochester, Minnesota, United States
Seeking:
Female 21 - 37
Hair color:
Brown
noodles
If serious, ladies, must want a child or another child. Must want to live on a ranch in the 10 years and retire. Im also 100% disabled through the VA. Tis all. Thank you
Jimmy
Standard Member
50
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Dale City, Virginia, United States
Seeking:
Female 39 - 69
Hair color:
Brown
Ready for Something Real.
I serve with pride and purpose, and the military has shaped me into someone who values discipline, honesty, and commitment. I’m calm under pressure, driven, and loyal to the people I care about. Outside of work, I enjoy keeping active, good conversations, simple adventures, and making the most of downtime when I get it. I believe in respect, consistency, and showing up for the people in my life. I may live a structured life, but I have a big heart and a good sense of humor once you get to know me.
Michael
Standard Member
41
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Aiken, South Carolina, United States
Seeking:
Female 31 - 42
Hair color:
Brown
So how about me?
17 years in the service, outdoor type who rather be out then in but is ok with staying in to watch a movie or just to talk. Loves to go on walks, hikes, do photography, bike rides. A honest caring loving guy who’s loyal to a fault so you have to ask
Anthony
Standard Member
Verified
43
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Eau Claire, Wisconsin, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 43
Hair color:
Brown
Single man looking for a lady. Must be verified.
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