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Camara
51 • Columbia, South Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 51
Seeking a Feminine, Faithful Life Partner
I am a Christian man who values faith, integrity, and leadership. I believe in living with purpose, building a strong foundation, and protecting the people I love. I work hard, stay disciplined, and take my responsibilities seriously. I enjoy stay
Robert Vaughan
44 • Atlanta, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 45 - 70
happy saving lifes
I’m a dedicated military man who values discipline, loyalty, and responsibility both in uniform and in everyday life. My career has taught me resilience, teamwork, and the importance of standing firm no matter the challenge. Outside of duty, I’m down to earth, enjoy good conversations, and believe in building genuine connections built on trust and respect. I carry my sense of duty with pride, but I also know when to relax, laugh, and enjoy the simple things in life
Barukeemyah
32 • Watertown, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 60
Let's make some unforgettable memories tonight
Im very much into training when it comes to staying inshape that's one of the loves I have in life,want to be a personal trainer someday,aside from that I enjoy meditation,eating healthy with home cooked meals,yoga for flexibility I also train in mma
Erik
36 • Arlington, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 45
Almafi Coast
Hi, my name is Erik. I enjoy working with computers, playing ice hockey, and snowboarding. I have been to Italy twice and plan on returning to Europe. I like to travel, however school and business can sometimes make that hard, but thanks to the internet many things can be done from anywhere. What I’m doing with my life: I am working on a degree in psychology. I am currently an Army Reservist, and work with computers and websites. I am planning to go further into my field of study while maintaining my current work with website development and computer services. I’m really good at: I am a good hockey player, as well as snowboarder. I am good at fixing things and developing websites/marketing and mostly enjoy the reward once I have accomplished a difficult task. Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food After recent trips to Europe I fell in love with pasta, I am a big pasta fan, and enjoy many italian foods. I also like a variety of other food.
Greg
59 • Portland, Oregon, United States
Seeking: Female 42 - 63
grounded,funny,intellectual,fit, active
I'm young at heart - or maybe I'm immature. I'm not sure but I'm cool with it. I am eclectic. Fitness in mind, body, spirit is my jam. The quickest way to my heart is thru kindness, respect, compassion, humor, subtle displays of criminal thinking
Marcus
38 • Griffin, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 32 - 60
I'm looking for something serious only
I'm Marcus btw, I like camping, fishing, hiking, running, listen to music, I'm creative and passionate person who loves problems solving. I'm always looking to learn new things....I'm looking for something serious and I'm ready to mingle with the right person, looking for someone who love deep conversation
Rubbin
48 • Charleston, West Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 60
Real vibes only, here for something meaningful.
I carry myself with calm confident. I know what I want and I value respect and effort. I enjoy my space, but I also love good company. I'm easy going, thoughtful and a good listener. I enjoy good food, good music and conversations that flow naturally
Breg
55 • Missoula, Montana, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 81
Looking for My Equal—In Love, Life, and Laughter”
I’m someone who believes that love is built on trust, respect, and genuine care—not just chemistry. I’m emotionally mature, grounded, and value open communication. I show up fully in my relationships—with consistency, compassion, and a heart that truly listens. Kindness and loyalty aren’t just words to me; they’re how I live. I take joy in the little things—deep conversations, shared laughs, meaningful moments—and I’m ready to build something real with someone who values connection just as much as I do. I’m not here for games or temporary distractions. I’m here for honesty, emotional safety, and the kind of partnership where we support each other through the ups and downs. If you’re looking for someone who will love with intention, care with depth, and walk beside you with both strength and softness, then we might be a good match.
ScreamEagle
42 • Louisville, Kentucky, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 70
Soft heart beneath the strongest armor
My job is my passion but yet I'm someone who believes that loyalty isn't just part of the job, it's also part of my soul. I've seen beauty of resilience, the strength of connection, and the power of shared purpose. Beneath the uniform is a warm hearted romantic who knows that real love isn't found, it's built day by day. I value honesty, laughter and someone who is open minded and isn't afraid of depth. I've never stop believing in the kind of love that's worth the wait and the effort. I'll guard your heart like I guard my mission with devotion, focus and protection.
Joe
43 • Huntsville, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 28
Communication is key
I love to travel, i enjoy playing with my guitar & harmonica though I am not very good 😅. reading and studying the Bible is a life long passion of mine, kayaking, camping, family time just to name a few. Enjoy many foods but found health foods are the best so learning to cook. My faith is important to me, I believe in morals and ethics, I believe in creating joy in life. Loyalty and honesty are important . I find enjoyment in the simple things in life, Strong military man that loves his God and Country 😂☺️🙏👍 Catholicism
Vinicio
33 • Danbury, Connecticut, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 35
Look me up :)
Where to start? i live a busy life because i want to be a better some one, I am enlisted in the army reserve, I work as a certified electrician and i'm currently trying to get my associates for construction management, That pretty much sums up my life anything else just ask :)
Andrew
58 • San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 50
Now accepting applications for a new partner in cr...
Originally from Hawaii, my adoptive parents took me captive and hauled me to Md. when I was 2-weeks old! Served 8 yrs in the infantry w/ a tour in Iraq. I have ran 2 marathons, but I’m on a recovery break for my ankle and knee. I love the outdoors and all of it's activities: hiking, camping, cycling, Jet-Skiing, motorcycle riding, and yard work. I also enjoy firearms, festivals, expos, and fairs. I love large dogs as I have had 2 Rottweilers, 2 German Shepherds and a Great Dane. I currently have 3 pit bulls. My friends say I'm the funniest person that they know! Please NO international women please. Sorry.
andrew
51 • Tampa, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female
Only verified users—it’s free to verify 🤷‍♂️
Know what “kinks” are, and have them 😉 *I will not, under any circumstances, send you money, order you food, shop online for you, etc.* Read my profile heading—verification is free—I’m not exchanging numbers without it. I'm in the army... I'm not much for the bar or party scene. I love nature- forests, mountains, and beaches. Can’t have more children—vasectomy lol If it's new to me, I'm usually interested in learning about it. :) I'm pretty relaxed, I don't stress easily. I chuckle at inappropriate things. I'm not particularly social. I have two sons- the oldest is 29 and lives in Illinois. The younger son is 15 and lives with me. He's my buddy. :)
Sean
49 • Hutchinson, Kansas, United States
Seeking: Female 27 - 50
Why must everything be so hard...
I'm a HUGE smartass. I am a mixture of sarcasm, dry humor, fun, laughs, goofiness, seriousness, love, caring, etc. I'm up for just about anything. I'm a thrill seeker. Anything that makes my heart feel like it's about to literally jump out of my chest! I'm the type of guy that will do just about anything once, and if I don't like it, I wont do it again. If I wasn't quite sure about it the first time, then I'll do it again just to make sure! If you have any questions, just ask. I'm pretty much an open book! 
Shawn
57 • Franklin, Tennessee, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 40
I Block those who don't read my requirements. I D...
Highly educated, numerous degrees and certifications. Financially independent. Outgoing, Good listener. Enjoy reading and traveling amongst other things. Not moody so don't be either.
Diego
26 • Roy, Utah, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 99
Looking to love and be loved. 🥹
INTP-T Army Vet Hi there Just a curious soul looking to expand my circle and make a few stories worth telling. I’m somewhere between a gym rat and a hopeless romantic, with a soft spot for anime marathons, late-night writing sprees, and leveling up (in games and in life). I’m into meaningful conversations, spontaneous plans, and connections that linger; whether they’re just for a moment or something more.
Alex
35 • Newark, Ohio, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 40
Retired and looking for someone to hang out with
Medically retired from the Army (100% P&T iykyk lol) and self employed just to stay busy. Love getting over fears by making them my hobbies. Looking for someone that wants to try new things. Single parent of two teenagers, 17F and 14M. Yes I had them
Carl
69 • San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 51 - 71
Looking For Healthy Love
I’m positive, upbeat, sometimes shy/quiet, sometimes loud/vocal, old school, down to earth, easy listening, care free, practical joker, free spirited, one woman man type, likes a few sports like college football and basketball but I don’t have to watch every game, likes holding hands, some forms of PDA, some kissing if the chemistry is right, I have a vivid imagination and a wild sense of humor and I mean you no harm-ever but I’m always willing to share what I have with you. My love language is physical touch and words of affirmation. Remember, I’m not perfect, I’m just me. If I’ve written to you, then I have a genuine interest in you and I would love it if you were to get in touch with me as soon as you can, thanks to all for taking the time to read me and I wish us all the Best of Luck as we look for Healthy Love.
Josh
40 • Colorado Springs, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Female 26 - 40
Looking for someone to share my life with!
- Originally from the Midwest in US (Chicago area) - Currently in California for work (have about another year here) - Fluent in English and Korean (debatable) - Looking to make friends and see where things go - Love fast cars and spicy food - Currently trying to get more fit; I've lost about 15-20 lbs in the last couple of months and would love someone who is also fit
Jonny
44 • Jacksonville, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 39
Looking to meet someone nice and simple.
I’m a humble person. Love to hunt and fish. Im retired and looking for someone nice to talk to. I don’t smoke and really don’t drink. I enjoy walks on the beach and watching the sunset. I also enjoy a good movie with someone in my arms. I love to laugh and joke. Looking to meet someone as friends to start and see what grows. I may not be perfect for all but with the right woman we can be perfect for each other. I own my home with a pool. No games please!!! I’ll tell you more if we’re Instead in each other.
robert
48 • Fort Worth, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 40
Read my profile, I am not a bank or a ATM machine
Read my profile first before contact me because I only talk to women that have read my profile from beginning to end because if a woman is not willing to read my profile then she is literally wasting my time
Blake
33 • Salt Lake City, Utah, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 45
Hey you found me
I'm 29, dirty blonde hair, green eyes and six feet tall. I've been in the army for five years and just recently left the service. I'm a generally quiet guy, but enjoy good conversation. I'm pretty sarcastic, love dogs, and just generally enjoy goofing around. (K I K) PO7745 I enjoy doing things outdoors like hiking and exploring just as much as I do indoor stuff like watching movies and such. Pretty easy going, just looking for someone else to do all those things with.
James
67 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 55 - 85
A Future Filled With Love 🌹
I’m a warm-hearted, honest, and caring man who believes the best relationships are built on trust, communication, laughter, and genuine affection. I enjoy the simple things in life, being good near the water, and sharing meaningful moments with someo
Adam
37 • Fort Collins, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 80
Looking for something real and genuine
I’m looking for someone genuine, kind-hearted, and ready for a serious relationship. If you enjoy good conversation, laughter, and building something real together, I’d love to get to know you better.
Michael
37 • Secaucus, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 50
Registered nurse/Army vet
I’m an upbeat, curious guy with a passion for music, learning new things, and enjoying the journey. I believe in keeping life lighthearted, having deep conversations, and enjoying standard good fun. I’m grounded, realistic, and definitely believe true character matters far more than a profile picture.
James C.
67 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 50 - 85
Let's write a story we'll love telling forever.
I have always been a firm believer that the world is filled with a quiet, beautiful magic, but I also know that this magic only truly comes alive when you have the right person to share it with. I am a hopeless romantic down to my very bones: the kind of person who still believes in soulmates, slow dances in the kitchen when no one else is watching, and saving handwritten love letters in a wooden box. To me, love isn't just a casual chapter in a book; it is the whole story. I’m not just looking for a partner to share a dinner with; I am searching for a soul connection, a best friend, a passionate lover, and a partner in every sense of the word. If you are looking for someone who will adore you gently, champion your dreams fiercely, and love you a little more with each passing sunrise, then I hope you’ll stay and read a little longer. To be completely honest, I have never been interested in a simple checklist of traits, nor am I searching for a superficial definition of perfection. What my heart truly longs for cannot be captured in a few words on a page. I am searching for a feeling, a beautiful, soul-stirring, and life-altering connection that makes the rest of the world quietly fade into the background. I am looking for a partner in the truest, most sacred sense of the word. Someone who will become my favorite hello, my hardest goodbye, the keeper of my secrets, and the sweet, comforting rhythm to my everyday life. I want to find the person who makes me look at the future not with worry, but with a heart full of anticipation and joy.
Michael
39 • Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 53
Loyal
I’m a honest man
stacee
21 • Austin, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 19 - 33
yo
I love music
Wiseman
58 • New York, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 60 - 96
Never give up on love.
I'm a lover boy, down to earth and to i ng at heart.
Hudson
50 • Wilmington, Delaware, United States
Seeking: Female 39 - 67
Love and peace
I’m a good and honest man … I treat my woman like a queen
Jay Rhubuttom
40 • Miami, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 45
Simple guy with a big heart and bigger dreams.
I'm someone who values honesty, peace of mind, and good vibes. I enjoy learning new things, listening to music, and spending quality time with people who matter. Life's been a journey, and I’m just here trying to make the most of it while staying true to myself.
Ray
60 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 48 - 74
Hi, im Raymond. I love to golf ,fish, and camp.
Im an widowersince 2015. I was married for 16 yrs.
Thomas
46 • Albuquerque, New Mexico, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 70
Love from the depths of your heart
I’m a good and honest man
Aaron silva
49 • Irvine, California, United States
Seeking: Female 45 - 80
Im looking for serious relationship
I'm very honest,kind, passionate caring trustworthy adventures and God fearing.
Dust Throllis
51 • Alameda, California, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 65
i'm a USA military officer

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