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35 Greenwood, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 27 - 45
Service branch: Airforce
43 Honolulu, Hawaii, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 40
Service branch: Airforce
First off, it's funny to me when I read "No drama" amongst the criteria in others' profiles. Why? Because EVERYBODY has some drama in their lives or will. What's important is how well it's managed and some of us could learn how to handle drama better from those who know how to keep it contained. Why limit your experiences with "No drama"? Just saying. :) That being said, I have "drama" in my life in the form of marital separation and two kids, who live with their mother. I've been separated for over two years now and the only thing holding me back from finalizing it all is time and money. The point is, that's my situation, but clearly it's my situation, not yours. I'm handling it. At the same time, there are great lessons to be learned from my situation, if you're open to hearing them. :) That being said, you can be certain I will always be honest with you, but only about what you express a willingness to hear. I'd prefer to meet people who want to hear the truth. One truth few people have been willing to hear are my views on love and relationships...and life in general sometimes. Those views compel me not to seek anything long-term in the traditional sense. However, they also demand I have deeply intimate relationships while they last. :) That being said, I'm not looking for "hookups." I'm not into completely meaningless sex. The fact of the matter is, if casual sex were an option, I'd never get any work done. Furthermore, to be very frank, I get a charge out of taking back the power and turning women down. So, if you're just looking for sex or that's about all you have to offer to the relationship, I'll probably tell you, "Good day." :) That being said, if the feeling is right, I'm not going to suppress it. However, sex is not my goal. This is going to sound odd, but I simply desire the company of attractive women on a casual dating basis because it gives me confidence - the confidence I need to succeed in my quest to self-actualize, become the best version of myself. Think of me as Mr. Grey, minus the sadomasochism, wealth (yet), contracts, and abs (again, yet). :) It takes a certain kind of woman to appreciate the type of "romance" I can provide - open-minded and fearless. She would understand how people tend to misguidedly expect certainty in others through love and marriage. She would understand I cannot offer her anything other than my sincerest friendship. The boundaries would be clear. No games. In fact, it requires both of us be very grown-up. And, ultimately, we'd get back what we put in. :) That being said, I am looking for gorgeous female friends...with the possibility for more. And really, shouldn't all of you be searching for the same? Friendship, after all, we often find out too late, should be at the core of any relationship. I'm actually working on a screenplay and book which will expound on where humanity has gone wrong in its pursuit of love throughout history. It's very philosophy, psychology heavy. :) That being said, I can just about guarantee you would enjoy your time with me as I share my thoughts and passions with you. I'm a very rational AND creative person with numerous talents and unmitigated ambition. Question is, are you the type who's truly open to new views and experiences? Or are you stuck on social norms, and worse, marginalized sensationalisms, the kind prominently portrayed in Hollywood romcoms and the like? :) That being said, please read the rest of my profile, check out some of the questions I've answered, and contact me if you meet the criteria at the bottom. FYI, if I contact you first, it's because I see something in you. What it is I can't be sure until we speak. Undoubtedly though, there's an opportunity for encouraging one another through this crazy life. :) (Many of you are probably wondering if I've had any takers and/or if I would be exclusive to one woman at a time. Why not ask and find out?)



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